Talk About Childfree

In the 21st century, currently, the modernization affects to life choices of modern society for changing family values. The transformation of motherhood and parenthood values, it could be triggered the dysfunctional of the family. Where the childfree lifestyle has been increasing dramatically, yet it’s still questioned wildly.

As women, me, childbearing is one of the gifts that should be thanked to. Otherwise, the various arguments among child-free women are coming out, such as what if they don’t wanna have kids? do they have emotional abilities to have a child? what if the world being overpopulated? what if they was being traumatic experience regarding their childhood? what if they worried about the total cost of rising child which quite expensive?at glance, all those questions are mostly to gaining their own happiness and satisfying their desires towards their selfishness.

On the other hand, motherhood is not choice, yet it’s a gift. It carries the sacred bonds, dreams, nurturing, care and experiences.At moment of you stare at newborn, then had wobble, what if I wouldn’t feel maternal? what if I wouldn’t bond? those questions would be echoing around your head. But then you see, gorgeous little baby upon your hands is moving smoothly, as though of the babies said thanked that already being born. At that time you could believe that childbearing is such as incredible thing.

Having children is kind of like godsend. Where you could express the unconditional love and protective force that you never knew you had. Moreover, you could be decreasing of the selfishness and being superhuman love which means you are willing to put your children’s need above your own. Thus, whoever believe towards the childfree movements, I really have no idea about it.